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I Mean, You Don't Look Gay!

“You don’t look gay. I would never have known by looking at you, that you’re gay.”

Those words bother me to my core.

And believe me when I say this, but I hear that all the time. It’s a micro-aggression that sticks to the roof of my mouth with a bad after taste of heteronormativity.

Is there an assigned look of gayness? Is there one single trademark of gayness that sets us apart from other humans?

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